Gold abstract sunburst above text: "Dating for Deep Love. 6 week course to discover the Love You Deserve. Max Trombly.

FINDING real love isn't a fantasy.

It's a choice.

and it starts right here.

BETWEEN 2015 AND 2017 I COMPLETELY RELEARNED HOW TO DATE.

I LOOKED AT THE UNCONSCIOUS DRIVERS THAT COMPELLED ME TO CHOOSE THE WRONG PARTNERS,

I ALSO LOOKED AT WHAT WAS MISSING FROM MY OWN KNOWING WHEN SITTING IN FRONT OF SOMEBODY ON A FIRST DATE.

WHAT I REALIZED DURING THAT TIME WAS JUST HOW MUCH WE ACTIVELY CHOOSE INCORRECTLY.

WE CHOOSE BASED ON UNHEALTHY PATTERNS THAT WERE MODELED TO US, WE ALSO CHOOSE ON WHAT "FEELS" RIGHT WITHOUT KNOWING WHAT WE ACTUALLY NEED TO BE DISCERNING FOR.

DATING FOR DEEP LOVE IS A NO BULL-SHIT PATH FOR MEN & WOMEN WHO ARE DONE SETTLING FOR LESS OR CHOOSING WRONG.

YOU'LL BREAK FREE OF OLD STORIES, GET CLEAR ON WHAT YOU WANT, AND FINALLY CHOOSE LOVE

- ON YOUR TERMS.

NOT SOMEDAY. STARTING NOW.

DEEP LOVE DOESN'T JUST HAPPEN - YOU CHOOSE IT.

THIS IS THE EXACT PATHWAY THAT BROUGHT ME TO MY WIFE, AND I HAVE TAUGHT IT TO COUNTLESS CLIENTS WHO HAVE ALSO FOUND LOVE THAT LASTS.

NOW IT'S YOUR TURN.

Join the program that changes everything - not just your dating life.

LET'S BE REAL:

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You’re not too late.

You’re not asking for too much.

You’re not broken.

You’re just done with the bullshit.

The swiping.

The bread-crumbing.

The emotionally unavailable people.

The ones who say they want something real… but ghost you the second things get serious.

The confusing “maybe” connections that keep you hooked, but never move toward committed relationship.

And maybe the worst part?

You’ve started to question if finding real, lasting love is even possible anymore.

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Little known fact: I took the photos that we use in our programs (I was a photographer for years) and this particular photo is one of my absolute favorites. Love has been my muse for years. Now my mission is create more if it. - Max

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HERE'S WHAT WE BELIEVE:

There is someone out there for you.

In order to find them, you just need to know how to:

Learn what drives your attraction patterns

Recognize clearly what you want

Discern who’s actually aligned with you

Move powerfully toward it – no matter how many dates it takes

This isn’t about finding “the one” tomorrow.

This is about waking up every day and saying:

👉 “I know what I need to do. I’m walking the path. I’m closer than I was yesterday.”

You keep showing up.

You stay open.

You stop collapsing when it’s not the right match, and you move on powerfully.

shift your mindset, shift your results:

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Dating doesn’t have to suck.

When you know your worth, what you want, and believe they’re out there – everything changes.

You stop waiting for magic.

You start moving toward love.

And every not-right connection?

Becomes a teacher. A clarifier. A gift.

THIS IS ABOUT POWER:

Your power to choose.

Your power to show up again.

Your power to break the pattern that's been keeping you from love.

Most people walk past the right person because they don't discern correctly.

They're too caught in the story, the judgement, the habit.

But not you. Not anymore.

We're handing you the keys.

Not to some fairytale - but to finding real, mature love.

what you will learn in dating for deep love?

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KNOW YOUR ACTUAL WORTH

When you have the self awareness of your patterns, and know WHO you truly are - you show up more powerfully.

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GET CRYSTAL CLEAR ON WHAT YOU WANT

When you know what you want, you can celebrate each YES as confirmation of even more of what you desire.

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Learn what aligned for you really means

When you know your patterns and programming, you can discern toward the partner who can actually love you.

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RECOGNIZE THE RIGHT ONE WHEN THEY SHOW UP

When you are clear on what you actually need you can choose based on compatibility not fantasy or chemistry alone.

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TURN EVERY WRONG DATE INTO A TEACHING

When you can feel what's right and not right with clarity, you don't collapse or get stuck on the wrong person.

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STOP WAITING FOR PRINCE CHARMING TO PROVE HE'S A PRINCE

When you decide to date for deep love, you are not waiting for a savior.

Why should You attend?

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First: I have been teaching this process for the past 8 years and it works. Client after client has found their entire dating experience change after moving through these steps.

This is a full rewire of how you perceive and experience dating—it's about your energy, your clarity, your choices and your self value.

I built this program for myself—to find the woman of my dreams. And it worked. I walked myself through every step, and what I gained was total clarity, alignment, and momentum. Over a year of dating, I didn’t burn out. I didn’t get lost in the “maybes.” I stayed connected to my truth with courage—and that made everything feel clean, powerful, and easy to navigate.

If you’re done with the confusion, the emotional hangovers, the endless wondering—this is your turning point. This process will change your life and dramatically increase your capacity to call in the relationship you actually want.

Sound amazing? It is amazing. And it works.

I’ve coached men and women through this exact process over the past 8 years—and again and again, it delivers. Why? Because it brings you home to yourself. It gives you the clarity and confidence to choose—not settle.

This isn’t theory.

I know how to guide you to deep, powerful, lasting love—because I’ve done it.

This is the blueprint.

Let’s go.

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Who Are we & Why Should You Listen To us?

✨ Meet Your Guides


Max Trombly

Founder of A Shift In Being | Relationship & Dating Coach | Devoted Partner | Father | Embodied Leader in Conscious Love

Max Trombly doesn’t just coach people into healthy, soul-aligned relationships—he embodies what he teaches. As a devoted partner and father of two, Max lives the very principles taught in Dating for Deep Love: emotional congruence, intentional relating, and a deep, unwavering commitment to love rooted in truth.

Based in New Orleans, Max is a transformational Dating and Relationship Coach known for helping men and women attract high-quality, emotionally available partners by doing the real inner work first. His gift lies in helping clients dissolve outdated patterns, release anxious or avoidant dynamics, and attract connection from their most grounded, authentic self.

Max knows from experience: when you’re ready to stop performing, settling, or chasing love—and start dating from a place of self-worth and deep clarity—everything changes.

This course isn’t just theory. It’s built from the same practices Max used to transform his own dating life into the powerful, intimate, emotionally safe partnership he’s living in now.

In this program, Max will help you:

  • Stop choosing from wounds, patterns, or chemistry alone

  • Get clear on what kind of love you’re really looking for—and how to call it in

  • Date with emotional intelligence, boundaries, and embodied confidence

  • Attract partners who are emotionally mature, available, and aligned

  • Lead with truth, magnetism, and self-respect in every interaction

With over a decade of experience coaching individuals and facilitating group programs, Max brings heart, humor, and radical honesty to this work. His coaching is rooted in self-responsibility, nervous system awareness, and relational intelligence—so you’re not just “looking for love,” you’re becoming the kind of person who draws it in effortlessly.


Kendall Merritt

Director at A Shift In Being | Master Coach | Embodiment Expert | Guide for Women Seeking Aligned Partnership

Kendall Merritt is a master coach and intuitive guide who helps women return to their deepest truths—and lead from that place in love, life, and partnership.

As Director of A Shift In Being, Kendall brings over a decade of experience and more than 1,000 clients served across personal, professional, and spiritual development work. Her gift lies in helping clients dissolve the stories that keep them small and reconnect to their inner knowing with clarity and power.

In Dating for Deep Love, Kendall brings a grounded, feminine lens to modern dating. She helps clients unravel the pressures of “doing it right,” release fear-based patterns, and come home to the version of themselves that naturally attracts aligned, emotionally available connection.

Inside the course, Kendall helps you:

  • Regulate your nervous system and date from wholeness instead of urgency

  • Release the fantasy or fear of being “too much” or “not enough”

  • Clarify your standards and values so you stop settling for half-hearted love

  • Cultivate embodiment, presence, and energetic alignment that draws in quality partners

  • Build a relationship with yourself that becomes the foundation for everything else

Kendall’s work is somatic, intuitive, and powerfully transformational. Her presence offers safety, spaciousness, and depth—and her voice in this course will feel like the steady mirror you didn’t know you needed.


You’re Not Just Looking for a Partner.

You’re Ready for Deep Love.

Dating for Deep Love isn’t about hacks, scripts, or trying harder. It’s about becoming the clearest, most aligned version of you—so you attract love that’s worthy of your soul.

Whether you’re just re-entering the dating world, feeling frustrated with the apps, or done settling for emotionally unavailable connections—this program is your blueprint to call in partnership that is conscious, grounded, and real.

Max and Kendall won’t just teach you what to do—they’ll walk with you, step by step, as you become the version of yourself that love is waiting for.

👉 Join Dating for Deep Love

This is the love that starts with you. Let’s begin.

Testimonials

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Emily t., 29

Austin, TX

"This program completely transformed how I date. I'm confident, clear, and finally meeting people who want what I want. Dating feels aligned for the first time."

Jordan, N., 41

London, UK

"I used to feel lost in dating. Now I trust myself, feel inspired, and actually look forward to dates. The connections I'm making are much deeper and "

Sasha r., 34

Palo Alto, CA

"I approach dating with ease, purpose, and real joy. It's not just about finding someone, it's about finding myself in the process and I did. "

🗓️ Here’s What You’ll Experience in Each Section:

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Section 1: What is Our Relationship to Love Itself?

  • Uncover the roots of your relationship patterns and begin the healing process.

  • Experience guided exercises to connect with your embodied beliefs and practice self-compassion.


Section 2: Untangling Wounds and Taught Behaviors

  • Identify and release generational patterns that have shaped your approach to love.

  • Break free from limiting beliefs we have developed throughout our life


Section 3: Becoming the Person Who Can Manifest Your Vision

  • Cultivate the emotional intelligence, confidence, and self-love needed for a thriving partnership.

  • Align your actions with your relationship goals through powerful self-practices.

Section 4: Defining your Relationship Vision

  • Gain clarity on the type of relationship you want and why it matters.

  • Craft a heartfelt vision that aligns with your core values and purpose.

Section 5: Mastering the Art of Dating (Part 1: Discernment & Foundations)

  • Learn to set healthy boundaries and recognize red and green flags.

  • Approach dating with intentionality, curiosity, and presence.


Section 6: Mastering the Art of Dating (Part 2: Strategies)

  • Develop practical dating strategies for both online and offline connections.

  • Create a structure for your dating life that leads to meaningful connections.

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DATING FOR DEEP LOVE COURSE

Clarity: Understand your past, define your vision for love, and discover the steps to achieve it.

Healing: Let go of childhood wounds and inherited patterns that no longer serve you.

Empowerment: Build the confidence and skills to date with purpose and authenticity.

Practical Tools: Learn actionable strategies to navigate the modern dating world effectively.

Transformation: Become the person capable of attracting, choosing and sustaining the relationship you’ve always dreamed of.

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