THIS IS YOUR ROADMAP TO INTENTIONALLY BUILD A RELATIONSHIP THAT LASTS - AND LIGHTS YOU UP!
THE FOUNDATION YOU NEVER GOT - FOR THE RELATIONSHIP YOU
ACTUALLY WANT.
IF YOU'RE DONE DOING RELATIONSHIPS ON AUTOPILOT... IF YOU WANT CONNECTION THAT'S REAL, SUSTAINABLE, AND ALIVE - THIS IS WHERE IT STARTS.
FOUNDATIONS FOR DEEP RELATIONSHIP IS A TRANSFORMATIONAL PROGRAM TO HELP YOU DESIGN, CO-CREATE AND SUSTAIN THE KIND OF LOVE YOU'VE ALWAYS KNOWN WAS POSSIBLE - BUT YOU DIDN'T HAVE THE TOOLS TO BUILD.
BUILD THE KIND OF LOVE THAT FEELS EASY, INSPIRING, deep AND LIT UP!
YOU'VE BEEN IN RELATIONSHIPS YOUR WHOLE LIFE...
But No One Ever Taught You How to Actually
Do
Relationship
Let’s be honest.
We’ve all been winging it.
Doing what we saw our parents do, what we picked up from movies, past partners, and pure instinct.
But guess what?
That doesn’t fucking work.
Even in the best relationships—where there’s love, commitment, kids, history—things still feel off.
The connection starts to fade. Communication slips. Resentment builds. And nobody taught you what to do next.
What If It Didn’t Have to Be So Hard? (And we mean the relationship... not him ;))
What if your relationship actually felt easy—not just sometimes, but most of the time?
What if conflict didn’t spiral for days, but resolved in minutes?
What if you could come back to love—even when things got messy?
What if your daily life felt more turned-on, connected, alive?
Hoping things just "work out" is not a strategy.
Real love isn't luck. It's co-created. Consciously. Daily. Together.
Little known fact: I took the photos that we use in our programs (I was a photographer for years) and this particular photo is one of my absolute favorites. Love has been my muse for years. Now my mission is create more if it. - Max
WHEN YOUR RELATIONSHIP FEELS GOOD...
Your Whole Life Feels Better
When home feels like connection, not conflict…
When you feel chosen, safe, and deeply seen…
When you wake up knowing your partner is in it with you, fully…
You show up better.
You work better.
You parent better.
You live better.
This isn’t just about your relationship—it’s about your life.
And it’s time for it to feel fucking amazing.
this isn't fluff. it's function. it's foundation.
When you know where your relationship is rooted—what you’re here to create, and how to return to it—you stop getting lost in the chaos.
You stop spinning in patterns.
You stop taking things personally.
You stop thinking love has to be hard.
Because now you have a framework that actually fucking works.
The Empowered Way to Do Love
This program gives you the clarity, the tools, and the practices to build a relationship that’s:
Rooted in vision
Fueled by real connection
Grounded in conscious communication
And sustained by actual structure that holds both of you
It’s not just about fixing problems—it’s about building a love that thrives.
You can keep repeating the same unconscious patterns and hope love figures itself out...
OR
You can choose to build something real, vibrant, and life giving.
Let's make love a practice, not a passive experience.
what you will learn in FOUNDATIONS for deep love?
BUILD A RELATIONSHIP THAT FEELS EASY
Relationships aren't supposed to feel like work everyday - you'll learn how to create structure, safety and flow that let's love feel like a fucking gift, not a grind.
communicate in a way that actually lands
No more talking in circles, tiptoeing, or blowing up - learn how to speak and be heard with clarity, respect, and emotional power that brings your partner closer, not further away.
stop sabotaging your connection
No more blame, shut-downs, or emotional dumping - Just clear, powerful responsibility that turns conflicts into connection and makes you proud of how you show up in love.
stop repeating old patters and start creating something real
Because chemistry and childhood wounds shouldn't be running your love life - You'll learn how to consciously choose your partner and the dynamic you actually want, every damn day.
turn daily moments into intimacy not irritation
Learn the art of micro-connection - how to take a Tuesday morning and make it feel like a honeymoon without pretending, forcing, or faking anything.
build love that holds you through everything
When shit hits the fan - kids, career, stress, chaos - you'll know how to return to each other with trust, devotion, and a foundation so strong it becomes your home base for life.
Why should You JOIN?
First: I’ve been teaching this work for the past 8 years, and it works. Client after client has watched their entire relationship dynamic shift by walking through this process.
This is a full rewire of how you do relationship—it’s about your emotional responsibility, your clarity, your communication, and your capacity to create real, lasting connection.
I built this program for myself — to build the kind of relationship I never saw growing up. And it worked, my wife and I live with the same foundation. We walked ourselves through every tool, every practice, every hard truth—and what we gained was a love that’s alive, resilient, and rooted in trust.
Even when things got hard—kids, stress, life— we don’t feel lost. We know how to come back to love. How to lead. How to hold the vision. And that changed everything on our lives.
If you’re tired of emotional gridlock, repeating the same damn arguments, or feeling like your relationship is just surviving—this is your turning point.
This process will change your relationship—and your entire experience of love.
Sound big? It is. And it’s real.
I’ve coached men and women through this exact framework for nearly a decade, and again and again, it delivers. Why? Because it brings you home—to yourself, and to each other. Authentically and rooted in what YOU want to experience.
It gives you the tools and clarity to build—not settle. To thrive—not tolerate. To do so on your own terms.
This isn’t theory.
We know how to guide you into deep, aligned, sustainable love—because I’ve done it.
This is the blueprint.
Let’s fucking go.
Who Are we & Why Should You Listen To us?
✨ Meet Your Guides
Max Trombly
Founder of A Shift In Being | Relationship & Dating Coach | Husband | Father | Builder of Deep, Conscious Love
Max Trombly is not just teaching the foundations of deep relationship—he’s living them. As a deeply committed husband and devoted father of two, Max brings the full weight of lived experience to this work: a relationship rooted in emotional intelligence, relational integrity, and unwavering presence.
Based in New Orleans, Max is a transformational Relationship and Dating Coach known for guiding individuals and couples toward emotionally safe, connected, and passion-filled partnerships. His own relationship is a testament to what’s possible when these tools are put into practice: clear communication, fast repair, shared vision, and a love that continues to grow richer with time.
Max’s coaching combines grounded emotional maturity with practical, step-by-step frameworks. He empowers his clients to move beyond limiting patterns, dissolve resentment, and lead from self-responsibility. His work helps clients cultivate the kind of love that heals—not just personally, but generationally.
Whether you’re navigating the complexities of modern dating or longing to transform a long-term partnership, Max offers a powerful blend of clarity, compassion, and structure. His approach is relationally intelligent, emotionally attuned, and deeply transformative.
Specialties include:
Helping you clarify your relational needs, desires, and non-negotiables
Teaching you how to communicate with empathy, direction, and truth
Supporting couples in reigniting emotional intimacy and repairing trust
Guiding clients through post-divorce healing into healthy, aligned love
Max is also the creator and voice behind The Foundations of Deep Relationships—a program born out of both his personal relational mastery and his decade of professional experience coaching individuals and couples toward embodied, lasting transformation.
For Max, this isn’t just coaching. It’s sacred work. It’s his life’s purpose. And he’s here to help you build a relationship that finally feels like home.
Kendall Merritt
Director at A Shift In Being | Master Coach | Facilitator of Embodied Transformation
Kendall Merritt is a seasoned transformational coach with over 1,000 clients served since 2010—spanning the personal, corporate, and leadership development spaces. As Director at A Shift In Being, Kendall brings immense depth, wisdom, and precision to her work, meeting each client in the exact moment they’re in and guiding them toward meaningful, embodied change.
Her coaching is grounded in the Intentionality Framework—a method rooted in self-awareness, self-responsibility, and the deep intelligence of the body. With an ability to weave together somatic awareness, emotional mastery, and grounded insight, Kendall helps clients uncover and shift the unconscious patterns that keep them stuck.
Inside The Foundations of Deep Relationships, Kendall’s voice and presence offer a powerful complement to Max’s. She brings a nuanced, feminine lens to relational healing and is a master at helping clients integrate what they learn not just intellectually—but viscerally.
Clients love her for:
Her ability to create deep emotional safety
Her intuitive, moment-to-moment presence
Her skill in guiding others into profound self-connection and clarity
Her gift for helping people feel what’s true in their bodies—not just in their minds
Together, Max and Kendall form a coaching duo rooted in integrity, emotional congruence, and shared purpose. They are both living examples of what conscious, connected relationship can look and feel like.
COUNTDOWN BEFORE THE EVENT:
Testimonials
LAUREN, 42
Atlanta, GA
"This program helped us see each other again, not just as partners or parents, but as teammates in life."
Jamal, 38
Baton Rouge, LA
"I didn't know how much I was sleepwalking through my relationship until this course woke me up. Max and Kendall teach these ideas in ways I could easily understand and bring into my relationship."
Beth & Michael, 47 & 49
Boston, MA
"The communication tools alone were worth it. We now resolve conflict in 15 minutes instead of 3 days."
🗓️ Here’s What You’ll Experience in Each Section:
Part 1: Co-Creation & Vision
Most people never pause to ask:
👉 What is this relationship actually FOR?
We begin by helping you and/or your partner define the purpose of your relationship—whether it’s raising a family, enjoying life after kids, or creating a next-level chapter in midlife.
You’ll dream into the highest possibility of what love could feel like—and actually design the kind of connection you want to experience day in and day out.
💡 Because when you don’t know the vision, you can’t choose in alignment with it.
Part 2: Needs, Wants & Desires
If you can’t name what you need… you’ll never receive it.
Here, we get radically honest and crystal clear on:
What you need to feel loved, safe, and supported
What you want to experience in intimacy and daily connection
What you desire when you let yourself fully dream into the most nourishing relationship possible
This section invites you to stop settling for “good enough”—and claim what your heart actually longs for.
Part 3: Communication & Conflict Resolution
Every relationship will face emotional storms.
The difference is: Do you know how to navigate them—together?
We’ll teach you an easy-to-integrate framework to resolve conflict without defensiveness, emotional shutdown, or walking on eggshells.
You’ll learn how to:
Break the cycle of reactive habits and emotional loops
Speak and listen in a way that brings you back to connection
Turn conflict into clarity, intimacy, and renewed trust
✅ This alone can change everything.
Part 4: The Empowered Way to Do Relationship
Great relationships aren’t built on autopilot—they’re built on ownership, leadership, and intentional design.
In this final phase of the program, we move beyond emotional reactivity and into radical responsibility—where you stop outsourcing your experience and start actively co-creating the kind of love you want to live in.
You’ll learn how to:
Show up with full emotional responsibility
Take ownership of your patterns and impact
Stay aligned with your shared vision—even when life gets messy
Step into conscious leadership and empowered co-creation
Create clear agreements and supportive structure that keeps love thriving
Understand healthy masculine and feminine stewardship in action
Implement weekly practices that keep your relationship tuned, alive, and sustainable
This is where your relationship stops being something that “just happens”…
and becomes something you actively choose, lead, and love into being.
Because love isn’t passive.
It’s a daily practice.
And empowered love is the kind that lasts.
Enroll Now and Begin Your Journey to the Love You Deserve
Your future is calling. Will you answer?
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Foundations FOR DEEP LOVE COURSE
✅ Clarity: Own your patterns, get clear on what you truly need in love, and design a relationship rooted in purpose - not default.
✅ Emotional Mastery: Learn to navigate conflict, triggers, and communication with maturity - so you stay connected even when things get messy.
✅ Vision: Define the kind of relationship you actually want to live in - and co-create it with clear intention and aligned action.
✅ Responsibility: Step into empowered partnership by owning your impact, your energy, and your role in creating the relationship you crave.
✅ Sustainability: Build the daily structure, leadership and trust that make love feel safe, alive, and strong enough to last a lifetime.
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